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Sunday, November 25, 2012
Tablescapes and more!
Whether you're planning a family gathering for the holidays or you just happen to appreciate a beautiful, yet casual, table setting, one can find a fantastic collection of home goods at Great Finds to set the perfect table or buffet. You'll also find a wide variety of gifts for the holidays, hostess gifts, bridal showers, as well as amusing and functional products for the kitchen and bath.
The store
Four years ago, owner Maggie Calhoun, and her husband,
Birge Calhoun, embarked on the restoration of an old mill house located on Upper Main Street in Valatie, NY so that she could open her new housewares store. This beautifully renovated building now features a wonderful mix of eclectic products for the home on two floors--it's like shopping in a house.
Calhoun decided to open a housewares store because she, "Loves decor, seasonal changes, color and textiles." Combine that with her mission to, "Inspire, support and encourage customers; to give them a comfortable and welcoming environment to explore their options," and you've found a great place to visit, experience and shop! And, as she goes on 6-8 "buying" trips throughout the year, there is always something new for her customers to consider, and in some cases, be amused by. Her offerings of kitchen towels and paper cocktail napkins boast some very humorous one-liners and make great hostess gifts. If you don't see what you're looking for, just ask! Maggie places special orders, especially for rugs.
Back to the tablescapes...
From French country
to seasonal & casual country
You are sure to find the perfect selection for your tables and buffets to mix-n-match throughout the year and seasons. And, it won't cost you a small fortune!
Great Finds is open: Monday-Saturday, 10:30-5:30; Sunday, Noon - 4. There are expanded hours for the holidays, so please give Maggie a call to double-check.
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Dunbar Nursery
As you go about gathering the mums, pumpkins, gourds and cornstalks to decorate your porches and landscapes this fall season, take a moment to reflect on where those items came from and the time, space and planning that has gone into growing them. They don't just magically appear at the local garden center. Seeds, rooted cuttings, soil, water, equipment, labor-power, acres of land and greenhouses are needed to produce these colorful autumnal crops. For many nurseries, the process begins mid-winter with orders for seeds, root cuttings and saplings being made no later than March. Dunbar Nursery follows this schedule.
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Marian and Dick Dunbar, founders and owners of Dunbar Nursery
since 1973.
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A labor of love.
For the past 39 years, Dick and Marian Dunbar, founders and owners of Dunbar Nursery, located at 1347 County Route 22 in Ghent, NY, have grown annuals, perennials, shrubs and trees to sell to local gardeners, homeowners and businesses throughout Columbia County. About 20 years ago, they decided to add hardy mums to their assortment of plant offerings. "They are a great cash crop at the end of the growing season," stated Marian.
Many hands make light work.
"Mum-orial" Day weekend tradition.
Why Memorial Day weekend? Honestly, that's a story in and of itself, but here's a quick and simple answer. Dick, the patriarch of the family, served in the Navy during WWII and five of his seven children, yes seven, also served in either the Navy, Coast Guard or Air National Guard. The armed forces connection extends beyond the immediate family, too. The "kids", along with their spouses and children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, return home each Memorial Day weekend to collectively honor and acknowledge the efforts and sacrifices of those who have defended and represented our county. It's during this weekend that "many hands make light work," and the year-end cash crop of mums is planted at the family homestead and nursery. What's important to know is that this is truly a family affair; from 2 -85 years of age, all pitch in and help.

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Dick Dunbar in front of mum patch, 2012. |
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Instructions for removing the irrigation stick. |
They're big, really, really big!
They're hardy and if you plant them in the ground, they just might winter-over and bloom again next season....
Get them while you can!
The nuance between the Dunbar family and their mums may not be obvious, but it's there. Their roots are strong and run deep and, as a visit to the nursery will confirm, they are a bright and colorful bunch!



The nursery is closed on Tuesdays and their telephone number is 518-392-2385. You can "like" them on Facebook, too.
Monday, August 13, 2012
Omi! "Big Red," a Photographer and the Artist
For those residing or traveling through the quaint section of Ghent, NY, proudly known as Omi, they've had the amusement of seeing a playful art installation sitting atop the crest of a hill in a field near the intersection of County Route 22 and Orchard Road. It is a brightly painted round bale of hay. Many have wondered where it came from and who placed it there. Some assumed that it was connected to Art Omi. For others, it was simply a perfect photographic opportunity. Doug Stalker, a local photographer, is one such person.
Big Red, as it was artfully named by the artist May Tveit, arrived late this past spring and is one of many large-scale sculptures presented as part of the field sculptures at Art Omi.
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"Big Red" by May Tveit, photo by Doug Stalker |
The Photographer
In 2005, when Doug Stalker was nearing an early retirement, having worked at General Electric for 27 years as a major home appliance technician, he took a photography course through the International Writers and Photographers Association. "My interest in photography had actually started much earlier. My first camera was a Canon Range Finder, one of the first 35mm slide cameras. I got it when I was in the Army in the late '60s," shared Stalker.
His "passion" for photography and continued desire to learn resulted in his completing and receiving a certificate from the New York Institute of Photography in 2009. "I am constantly working towards increasing my skills and abilities," he continued. "I want my photography to be artistic."
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Ryder Cooley, photo by Doug Stalker |
"I've done freelance work for the Chatham Courier and the Register Star [local newspapers] and have done volunteer work for the Columbia Land Conservancy, too, all of which I like doing," said Stalker. However, he continued that it's the landscapes of Columbia County and the portraits of its residents and visitors that are most appealing and rewarding to him as an artist of photography. "I like to create a photographic essay by capturing the personality of the person I am photographing. The photo of Ryder Cooley is a perfect example--this photo captures her personality." He further expressed that he likes "getting out" to see what we have here in Columbia County, "the stuff we see and drive by every day without really noticing." Photographing these places and landscapes in HDR (high dynamic range) sheds new light on familiar places for him and those who have seen his work. The photograph of "Big Red" sitting atop the crest of the hill in Omi is a perfect example of his photographic insight. Another such photo is currently on exhibit at the Berkshire Museum.
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James Burnett, photo by Doug Stalker |
Stalker also happens to be a member of the Camera Club at the Berkshire Museum in Pittsfield, MA. An exhibit celebrating the works of the club members entitled, "The Big Picture: Berkshire Museum Camera Club 75th Anniversary Exhibit" is currently underway at the museum. The exhibit includes a wonderful photograph taken by Stalker of a Columbia County resident (and artist), James Burnett, running down Angel Hill Road in Chatham, NY.
Stalker's recollection and reflection of this particular photo is, "The light looked great and I shot several photos of him from near the top of Angel Hill. I kind of had the thought that the whole photo, in a way, represents man's journey through life: headed for the light at the end of the road." On many a morning commute, I've seen this man running, and the photo truly captures the essence and spirit of what Stalker expressed.
The exhibit at the Berkshire Museum concludes September 16, 2012.
Although Stalker is "retired" and recently celebrated his 65th birthday, he has no intention of slowing down. "There are more techniques to learn, people to meet, and places to discover and rediscover," all, of course, through the lens of his camera.
The Artist
"Big Red," a large-scale, site specific art installation, was created by artist May Tveit in 2009 and was originally featured in prominent locations in Wellfleet, MA (Cape Cod) as part of a public art project called Field Test. According Adam Hall at the Omi International Arts Center located in Ghent, NY, Tveit was later inspired by the fields in Omi while visiting a friend who was an artist in-residence at the center and, subsequently, in 2010, became an artist in-residence herself. During Tveit's residency at Art Omi, she had a series of discussions with Art Omi (and the owners of an offsite field) about bringing "Big Red" to Omi. "Big Red" was installed this past spring.
According to Tveit, "Big Red" is a 1500-2000 pound round hay bale from the Wise Family Farm located in Bonner Springs, Kansas. The hay bale is coated with urethane and painted with car paint so that it doesn't fade or disintegrate from the natural weather elements.
Unique, quirky, fun, odd, whatever adjective you choose to describe this art installation, it certainly has added a splash of color to the field in which it currently resides. The juxtaposition of the red against a blue or storm-laden sky is striking.
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You may contact Doug Stalker via email at: stalkerdoug@mac.com or
visit his website at: www.dougstalkerphoto.com to see additional work and inquire about his photography services.
For more information on the exhibit at the Berkshire Museum, visit: http://berkshiremuseum.org
Additional information about the artist May Tveit and the Omi International Arts Center (Art Omi) can be found on at:
The photos used in this post are used with Doug Stalker's permission.
Monday, July 30, 2012
When people do great work, it's important to endorse them! When they don't, well....
Earlier this spring, I came upon a really great deal for Smith & Hawken outdoor table and chairs through a major retail chain store (of which shall remain nameless, as I don't wish to "endorse" them by mentioning their name). I thought it was one of their limited "boutique" opportunities. As it turns out, it wasn't. The Smith & Hawken company no longer exists and did not manufacture the beautiful line of products I thought I was purchasing. The company [Smith & Hawken] was purchased by a major fertilizer and bug spray company in 2004, hoping to attract the millions of people who were spending millions of dollars in the garden-lifestyle industry. In 2010, the Smith & Hawken "brand" was purchased by the major retail chain I purchased the table and chairs from this past spring. Delivery was free if items purchased were ordered during this "limited and special deal."
Given the state of the boxes that were delivered (while I was not home), and my naïveté about the Smith & Hawken "brand," I guess this is where the saying "buyer beware" applies.
The results when directions are not followed and care isn't taken...
I knew the importance of taking pictures of the damaged boxes and products as I was not home to note the damages on the delivery paperwork, or refuse delivery all together. I called customer service immediately to alert them about the damage and see what my options were.
"Sorry miss, but our inventory is sold out and we will not be getting anymore of this product this season."
Yes, it was a very polite person reading from a script in an outsourced call center. It's not their fault that they get pulled into this very controversial issue and debate.
My options?
#1: I could return the chairs (not just the broken chair, as they were sold in sets).
I queried, "I must not be the only customer who received broken merchandised, and was it possible that other people returned sets of this chair and that you might have those available for replacement?" Silence, then, "No, miss, that is not possible." If only it was that simple; I forgot I was dealing with a major retail store. No, they weren't available. At this point, I'm surfing the internet to see if I can order the chairs directly from Smith & Hawken. You know what's coming, right? That's when I discovered they are only available through the store I just purchased them from....Arrgh!
#2: Keep the chair.
"Okay, but what am I going to do with a broken chair? The set looks odd with the table and three chairs." " Well, you could have it repaired." At this point I'm thinking: no kidding, I can have it repaired, but why are you making me, the client, drag a realistic solution out of you?... Because that's part of the disconnect between big chain stores and their customers--there is no customer service. Silly me, I forgot! It has now become our responsibility to problem solve and find a solution or live with the poor results and dissatisfaction. Additionally, I find it particularly frustrating that they can't keep track of returned items in their warehouse system.
After much-a-do, and conditions I had to explicitly define, it was agreed that I was going to see if I could find a woodworker who could repair the broken chair. If it was possible to repair the chair, I would keep the chair and get a full refund for the chair. If it wasn't possible to repair the chair, I would return the entire set, including the table, for a full refund. Repackaging would also have to be done by the company responsible for picking up the table and chairs.
Fortunately, I knew just who to call and he is most definitely a person whose work I would endorse!
Work I would most definitely endorse!
His name is Joseph Duclos. He's a master woodworker who does beautiful work and I am very grateful that he was able and willing to fix the chair in such a timely manner, given that it was a small job.
Check out his website to see the type and quality of work that he does. Maybe you have a project that you'd like to have done or know someone who does. I'm positive you'll be more than satisfied with his professionalism, talent and friendly manner--all qualities that we need to endorse and support in this ever-changing world we live in.
www.josephduclos.com
Check out his website to see the type and quality of work that he does. Maybe you have a project that you'd like to have done or know someone who does. I'm positive you'll be more than satisfied with his professionalism, talent and friendly manner--all qualities that we need to endorse and support in this ever-changing world we live in.
www.josephduclos.com
Just in case anyone is wondering....
I can honestly say that I was not paid to make this endorsement, and did not receive any special pricing or service for my endorsement. I paid for the repair. This post was my idea. I asked Joe, after he completed the work, if he minded that I write about the experience and share his information. It is my way of endorsing a business that I feel is worthy of letting other people know about. I have nothing to gain financially from this post.
Monday, July 23, 2012
Summer Project: Our Old House
Contending with Bees, Bats, 50 Shutters, Family Needs and the Heat as we Scrape, Repair, Prime and Paint our Nearly 200-Year Old House this Summer
When I first looked at this picture (taken the end of June 2012), the house looked scary in its "naked" state. Yet, in this current state, it looks a 100-times better than it did when we first purchased the house 17 years ago (June 1995). Our families thought we were crazy purchasing yet another "fixer-upper" (and this one worse than our first one). We saw the potential.
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Painting Allows Time for Thought and Reflection: Looking Back
That first summer required much work on our part, as well as the help of family and friends. Our boys, Sam and Max, were 6-and 3-years old and were real troopers, too! We hauled 3 tons of building materials, debris and an old furnace out of the house (I kid you not, the roll-off dumpster was weighed). Old appliances that could be donated were donated, materials that could be recycled were recycled, and the brush, shrubs and trees that were "hiding" the house were cut down and later burned in a bonfire. In retrospect, had we been thinking, we should have purchased stock in the company that made Calamine Lotion as sumac and poison ivy were prolific. Windows and doors were repaired and replaced, respectively. Our goal was to have the kitchen, one bathroom and one bedroom (for the boys) completed by August 1st, our official move in date as the lease on our temporary rental was over and, come September, the boys would be starting in a new school and preschool. We also needed to get to know our new neighbors and the community. Many people wanted to know who the crazy young couple was that bought the Old Tennis Club. We made the August 1st deadline, and a vacation in Arizona and California was our reward.
During that crazy first month of renovations and repairs in July 1995, many people stopped by to offer us their services. Unfortunately, for them, and although we appreciated their offers of service, we weren't looking to contract out the work. This was our project and we had a very tight budget. We put a lot of sweat-equity, as well as equity, into the house that first month. Painting the exterior needed to be done, but there just wasn't any time that summer of 1995; it would have to wait until the following summer.
Summer 2012
Now, 17 years later, and after many interior and exterior renovations and restorations, more sweat-equity and equity (including a complete scraping and painting of the house the summer of 1996 and a less-involved re-painting of the house the summer of 2005), it was time to really "attack" the exterior of the house. Our goal? Completion by August 1st, including repointing and glazing of the windows and painting of the tin roof. Our plan of attack? Complete one side at a time, beginning with the front of the house, and work as many hours of the week as the weather and our schedules would allow.
Work began in earnest on June 23rd. And, with the exception of five days spent visiting and helping an aunt in Vermont the July 4th week, we've kept our focus on the task. Our son Sam, who is now 23, came home for a few days to help even though he "hates" painting. His help was very much appreciated! Max, son number two, now 20, is scheduled to lend us a hand when he comes home after his college summer session classes and job are complete and before his fall term begins. His help will be appreciated, too! Other than our boys, it's been me and Lew working as a team to get the job done. As we take down shutters, scrape, prime and paint, we listen to music, chat and argue. We debate world and political issues, argue some more, drink tons of water and Gatorade, haul and hoist ladders, and try to avoid being stung by bees, hornets and wasps. We've, well really Lew has, cajoled bats sleeping behind the shutters to fly away. At about 8pm, when we've had enough and our shoulders and backs are aching, we clean up, have a beer and dinner, and admire the progress we've made.
Friends and neighbors have stopped by to say hello, check on the progress and encourage us to put the brushes down and come swimming in their pools--we've certainly appreciated those offers, especially since it's been exceedingly hot and dry.
In the beginning of this year's project, people asked if we had considered vinyl siding--"vinyl is final!" Yes, it is, but we quickly reminded them that although this is a time consuming project, the clapboards, curved cherry soffits, windows and shutters are original to the house and that we're preserving a bit of history and craftsmanship. And, by painting the house every ten years or so, we've helped support two local and independently owned hardware stores by purchasing the paint and supplies we've needed: a practice and belief that we decided to follow when we purchased the house. I have to say it's makes the experience so much more rewarding when you walk into a hardware store and the same person who helped you make the paint selections years ago knows exactly what paint you need, and can knowledgeably answer your questions and make helpful suggestions.
Those August 1st Deadlines
Our deadline has been extended. There just isn't enough time to get the roof painted before our self-imposed August 1st deadline. However, the main part of the house will be complete, just in time to help Sam move from his current apartment into his new apartment, and then we'll help Max get settled for his Junior year in college. Although they are older and are learning to live independently, they still need, on occasion, the time and help we can give them as they make their transitions into adulthood. Our reward? We like their company and will take any opportunity to hangout with them, oh, and a week at the Cape!...
Isn't it Interesting How Family and Homes Involve Nurturing & Attention
It's true, the hours spent painting allows for moments of deep thought and reflection as you dip your brush into a can of paint and repeat the back and forth motion while applying the paint. It can be very Zen-like, sparking moments of realization.
"Oh, by the way, we need to replace the water pressure tank, it's leaking in the basement. Let's make sure we check it throughout the day and later we'll go buy the new tank. I'll install it this week unless it fails completely before then. You know where the shut-off valve is, right?"
At that moment, it occurred to me that homes are very much like kids: pay a little extra attention to one and the other(s) are going to need your attention, too!
•I'll post more updates and pictures when we are completely complete, but I will tell you, it's looking good! And, as a sidebar, I haven't lost the skill of re-pointing and glazing the windows: a skill I was taught the summer before I entered college. That's a story for later, but one I've been ruminating on as I've worked on our old house this summer....
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